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CONFESSION OF ONLINE CHEATER
We at PC Pandora want to help you understand how easy it can be
for someone in a serious relationship to commit adultery online.
You are about to be introduced to Carolyn M., 33 of Lancaster, CA,
a married stay-at-home mom, who has uses the Internet to have online
cybersex affairs.
PC Pandora: Why did you start using the Internet to cheat
on your husband?
Carolyn: Because it's so easy to do. I really love
my husband, but the temptation of the Internet is so overbearing
that I succumb to it all of the time. Cybersex is so exciting, you
feel like you're a character in a romance novel, or sometimes a
character in a porn movie. It all depends on who you're having cybersex
with, but I mostly let them do whatever they want to me, because
at that moment it's me that they're getting off on.
PC Pandora: Can you define "cybersex" for us?
Carolyn: Using a computer, a keyboard, and your imagination
to have sex with someone that you can't see, touch, or smell. It
can be very exciting and fulfilling, or it can be boring and annoying.
PC Pandora: Do you feel that engaging in cybersex is the
same as cheating on you husband?
Carolyn: Yes, I do believe that every time I connect
to the Net and have cybersex with someone who is not my husband
that I'm committing adultery. I don't ever feel guilty however because
it's not really happening, it's fake, but yet I still feel like
I'm really having sex with someone new and fun. It's very intimate
and I believe that I'll continue having cybersex for as long as
I can.
PC Pandora: How do you meet your cybersex partners?
Carolyn: Usually message boards, or I just enter chat
rooms that I find through various search engines. Honestly, it's
the easiest thing to do. Sometimes I find myself having cybersex
with someone within 3 minutes of connecting to the Net. It's crazy.
PC Pandora: How often and when do you have cybersex?
Carolyn: Honestly, whenever my husband isn't paying
attention. Sometimes I actually participate in cybersex when my
husband is in the same room that I'm in. He'll be watching something
on TV and I'll be in cyberspace having a threesome with two guys
that I just met. It's funny how he has no clue as to what I'm doing.
But I mainly do it when my husband is at work, or when he goes to
bed. I tend to stay up really late at night because that's when
the chat rooms get very hot if you know what I mean.
PC Pandora: What excuses do you give your husband so you
can go online and have cybersex?
Carolyn: I just tell him that I'm bored and going online
to look at clothes, or to check the weather, or to see what movies
are coming out soon. Or I just tell him that I'm emailing some friends,
or my mom. He has no clue. It's kind of sad how clueless someone
can be.
PC Pandora: Do you ever plan on meeting your cybersex "partners"
in the real world?
Carolyn: Yes, I plan on this. Many of the men that
I meet want to meet me in person, and want to of course make love
to me for real. I think that one day I may be tempted to actually
go out there and meet one of these guys who I trust. Cybersex can
be fun, but taking it to the next level is inevitable. I really
believe that 90% or more of the people who participate in cybersex
affairs will eventually have sex with someone they met online in
the real world.
PC Pandora: Do any of your married girlfriends use the
Internet to cheat on their husbands?
Carolyn: That's funny that you ask because about one-third
of all my friends who are married have tried cybersex at least once.
PC Pandora: If your husband were to use our PC Pandora program
would you be caught?
Carolyn: Yes. I would be in serious trouble if my husband
ever found out about Pc Pandora. I hope that he never finds out
about you.
Do you think it's possible that your spouse could be just like Carolyn?
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